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Eilish isn't afraid to break taboos. She declares sex and masturbation as her go-to stress relievers, even jokingly claiming she should have a "Ph.D. in masturbation." She elaborates on her frustration with societal discomfort around female sexuality, stating, "People are so uncomfortable talking about it, and weirded out when women are very comfortable in their sexuality and communicative in it."
Eilish goes beyond mere advocacy for open conversation. She champions self-pleasure as a powerful tool for self-love, particularly for those struggling with body image issues. She reveals her personal experience using self-gratification, including self-loving in front of a mirror, as a way to confront body dysmorphia. "It makes me have such a raw, deep connection to myself and my body, and have a love for my body that I have not really ever had," she shares.
However, Eilish isn't blind to the potential pitfalls surrounding sexuality. She's a vocal critic of pornography, having spoken out in the past about its negative influence. She details her own experience with porn consumption, revealing how it distorted her perception of healthy sexuality.
Eilish manages to bridge the gap between advocating for self-pleasure and acknowledging the dangers of porn. This duality might explain her self-proclaimed "Ph.D. in masturbation" title - a humorous yet insightful way to highlight the importance of healthy self-exploration.
The influence of her sexual awakening is evident in her upcoming album. "Hit Me Hard and Soft" carries a distinct sexual edge, with the second track, "Lunch," playing a pivotal role in her self-discovery journey. Eilish describes how the song reflects her exploration of her sexuality, including her attraction to women.
Despite initially wanting to keep her sexuality private, Eilish discussed coming to terms with the sudden public interest after a 2023 interview. She admits to overreacting to the media frenzy but emphasizes the frustration of having her identity dictated by external forces. "The whole world suddenly decided who I was, and I didn't get to say anything or control any of it," she laments.
Eilish's openness about sexuality, self-love, and the challenges of navigating young adulthood in the public eye resonates with a generation hungry for authenticity.
Jeff Ian
