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Ryan Reynolds, celebrated for his wit on-screen, reveals a more introspective side as he reflects on his complex relationship with his late father, James Reynolds. The elder Reynolds, a former police officer, battled Parkinson's disease for nearly two decades before his passing in 2015 at age 74. Ryan candidly shared in a recent interview with People about the challenges he faced understanding his father's illness and its impact on their relationship.
"Parkinson's was rarely discussed in our household. My father's approach was one of denial and secrecy," Ryan disclosed. He recalled the initial shock and subsequent strain on their bond when James began experiencing hallucinations and delusions, lesser-known symptoms of the disease that emerged years after diagnosis.
Ryan's journey toward reconciliation and understanding began posthumously. "I'm constantly piecing together our story," he shared. "There was a time I believed reconciliation was impossible, but I realize now it was my own reluctance to meet him halfway."
The actor, known for his roles in "Deadpool" and "Wolverine," has channeled his personal experience into advocacy. He serves on the board of the Michael J. Fox Foundation, a pivotal organization driving Parkinson's research and support.
Parenthood has brought Ryan a newfound perspective. He and his wife, Blake Lively, have four children: James, Inez, Betty, and Olin. Naming his eldest after his father was a tribute that underscores his evolving relationship with his father's memory.
"The healing for me comes through my role as a father," Ryan explained. "I'm learning from my father's strengths, particularly his integrity, while ensuring I'm emotionally present for my kids."
Reflecting on his regrets, Ryan expressed gratitude for a letter he wrote to his father shortly before his death, acknowledging every impactful moment. However, he laments not being by his father's side in his final moments, a decision he continues to grapple with.
Ryan also acknowledged the toll Parkinson's took on his mother, Tammy Reynolds, who was James's primary caregiver. "Caregiver fatigue is real," Ryan emphasized. "It's a challenge that often goes unnoticed and unreported."
Looking ahead, he remains committed to raising awareness about Parkinson's and supporting caregivers through initiatives like More to Parkinson's, an educational campaign he actively promotes.
